Having “good game” is basically comprised of social intelligence as well as the ability to flirt, tease, and feel what others are feeling.
The reason why I focus so much on game, is because it’s by far the highest leverage point for men trying to get more girls.
Sure, getting a better body, learning some sexual pickup lines, and getting more money will help you turn girls on much easier, BUT it doesn’t matter if you lack basic conversation skills.
Game is always the #1 priority to focus on, because even with poor looks and subpar status, good game can compensate for a lot.
Comfort With Women
Now that you understand sexual value to an extent, let’s talk about comfort and why it’s the hidden key to turning women on and getting sex.
As I said before, the right ratio of value to comfort will make her want to fuck you—but the wrong ratio will often screw most men up.
99% of men should focus on increasing value, but comfort is still extremely important (especially if you’re looking for long term relationships).
Fundamentally, comfort is just what it sounds like. High comfort means she trusts you, and she’s comfortable being with and around you.
Most guys don’t really have a problem with comfort. Having “too much value” and not enough comfort is a good problem to have.
…but, it’s still a problem. So here’s some ways you can increase your comfort level with a girl and increase her sex drive around you:
Having High Social Proof
Going on Dates With Her
Demonstrating You’re A Protector
Giving Her A Compliment
In my experience, the best way to demonstrate comfort AND value at the same time, is to continue the conversation on social media.
When a girl sees pictures of you and your family, you and other girls, and you doing cool shit on Instagram, Facebook, or Snapchat, she will immediately have 10x the comfort she did before.
Aside from that, spending a few hours getting to know her doesn’t hurt—having some conversations with her friends is great, too.
If her friends approve of you, this will instantly increase both your value AND comfort with her, so it’s like a pickup artist “hack” so to speak.
In addition to these things, showing her that you’re protective is good. It will turn any girl on when you show her this side of yourself.
For example… if a girl sees you playing with your niece, that’s a huge turn on for women. Every girl on planet earth likes a protective alpha male.
Another way to build comfort with a girl is by simply going on dates with her, spending time with her, and having good conversation with her.
Most guys already do this decently enough… it’s the VALUE that is lacking, though. Increase your value, and all else will come into place.
Attaining The Balance
Okay, so you understand the basic concepts of turning girls on—but what are some actionable tips, tactics, and secrets to help you out here?
First off, understand that turning a girl on requires that you heavily lean on creating anticipation, sexual excitation, and using her imagination.
A woman’s imagination is your best friend for turning her on. Women love to think about the “mystery” behind you, and it turns them on.
Getting good at texting girls is another great way to get more sex, and have more women in your life—texting can either make or break you.
Women love to be turned on when you know how to do it right, so don’t stress, don’t worry, and just absorb this information like a sponge.
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If you want to be that exciting sexual fling that women chase and wait in anticipation over, then understanding these concepts is critical.
Once you learn how to balance value and comfort, turning a girl on will be completely stress free—the easiest thing you’ve ever done.
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As always, I hope you guys enjoyed the article… if you have any questions about how to turn a girl on, be sure to leave them down below. I’ll see you guys next time!