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3 Steps to Get Laid TONIGHT! (Introduction to Screening)

It’s undeniable that getting a high quality girl interested in you can take a very long time. You have to meet her, chat her up, and slowly court her until she finally decides that she’s going to sexually invest in you. For some guys, this process can take years.

When you’re first starting out though, and trying to get experience with women, this isn’t necessarily a good thing. Sure, it may be good for a long term relationship, because every guy wants to marry the “good girl” (if those even exist), but for most of us we want to get laid fast.

Getting laid FAST, and I’m talking within a few hours here, fundamentally comes down to one thing: SCREENING. This is the idea that you ask girls certain questions, do certain things around them, and convey certain ideas, to “test” and see if they’re willing to sleep with you fast.

Screening women is a fundamental part of my game, and to be honest I should’ve written this article years ago. Every time I go out, I follow the advice I’m about to share with you, and it works like a charm—so with that in mind, here’s my introduction to screening.


How to Get Laid Fast (With Screening)

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Women give you shit tests, everybody knows this. Even some guy who’s just read a few pages of the red pill subreddit knows what shit tests are and how to pass them. What a lot of guys don’t know however, is that you can do the same thing to women. Yes, that’s right—men can give women shit tests.

Screening is one of those shit tests, and it lets you get laid faster than you ever thought possible. When you internalize the “screening mindset,” and take an assertive approach to getting laid, you’ll find that all the right women start to throw themselves at you. And best of all, it’s a lot easier than it sounds.

Fundamentally, the value in screening comes down to just two things:

  1. You waste less time
  2. You get laid way more

That’s it, but hey—those are two things that every guy wants. Thanks to screening, I can go out to nightclubs and get laid the very same night at least 75% of the time. Sure, there’s nights where I’m in a bad mood, can’t gain social momentum, and don’t feel like getting rejected, but for the most part, screening works wonders.


The Truth About Rejection

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I remember when I was in highschool, I used to think that when a girl said “no” to me, it was entirely my fault. I’d done something wrong, I wasn’t attractive enough, I was just too stupid for her, or something else. Little did I realize that women actually say “no” all the time, and it has very little to do with you.

In fact, I’d go so far to say that 100% of women are down for sex at all times so long as…

  • They don’t have a boyfriend
  • The logistics are just right
  • They aren’t out with friends who will judge them
  • You’re physically attractive enough to them
  • You have decent confidence (aka game)
  • The night is “right” (they aren’t too drunk, they’re having fun, don’t feel slutty, etc.)

The problem is that not every girl fulfills those categories. Some girls give you mixed signals, and don’t want to have sex, because they’re in a relationship with someone else. Some girls are afraid of being judged, and some girls are just in a bad mood. Are you starting to see the point?

Any time you get “rejected” it’s often not even YOU, but it’s HER! There’s a million reasons that a girl won’t want to have sex, but none of them are under your control. So with screening, you learn to focus in on the 10% of things that really matter, which results in you getting laid 10x faster with 10x more efficiency.


3 Steps to Get Laid Fast

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Whenever a girl “rejects you” it isn’t even a rejection. All she’s saying is that she’s not sexually available at the moment. So the whole purpose of screening is to FIND the girls that ARE sexually available, so that you don’t spend your time chasing women who aren’t interested in you.

Screening really comes down to three things:

  1. Looking for the right IOI’s
  2. Saying the right things
  3. Being sexually assertive (really flirtatious)

When you learn to do these three things in the right combination, you’ll find that screening works WONDERS for getting laid fast. Rather than going out and wasting your time talking to girls who aren’t interested in you, you’ll end up investing your time and energy in the 20% of girls that will give you the biggest return.


Step 1. Look For IOI’s

Looking out for the right IOI’s is a great way to screen women for sexual availability. While there’s always exceptions to this rule, for the most part, if a girl is interested in you, she’ll end up giving you a lot of IOI’s. There’s a few KEY ones to look out for, that typically indicate a high level of attraction.

See, there’s varying “levels” of IOI’s. In other words, some IOI’s mean that she’s “somewhat attracted,” while other IOI’s mean that she’s “down to fuck right now.” Learning to decipher between the different types of IOI’s is how you effectively screen girls for sexual availability.

Anytime she gives you the following IOI’s it means she’s very attracted to you. The more of them, and the more frequently she does them, the better:

  • Playing with her hair like a schoolgirl
  • Giggling at everything you say/do, even if it isn’t funny
  • Hugging you, touching you, etc.
  • Looking DEEP into your eyes

In my opinion, these are all the “cream of the crop” IOI’s, because if a girl gives me even one of these, I know there’s a good chance she’ll want to sleep with me. If she’s giving you multiple of these IOI’s, and doing them FREQUENTLY, then it’s probably time to pull.


Step 2. Say the Right Things

Screening is one HER body language, one part saying certain words, and one part flirting—this is the second part. There’s certain things that when you say, and there’s certain “routines” that when you do, she will be screened out IMMEDIATELY. If you open her with a flirtatious pickup line, that’s screening.

Take, for example, the following opening sequence:

  • Guy: [Notices IOI’s from Girl, Approaches Her]
  • Guy: “Hey, you look like a Scorpio.”
  • Girl: “What? Why?”
  • Guy: “I don’t know, you just look very mischievous.”
    • [Tension Point #1]
  • Girl: “Haha! Thanks, I think?”
  • Guy: “My name’s Jon, what’s your name?” [Shakes Girl’s Hand]
  • Girl: “I’m Rachel! :)”
  • Guy: “Wow, you have a strong handshake. Do you lift?”
  • Guy: [Squeezes Her Bicep]
    • [Tension Point #2]

This is a very basic routine that you can go out and use to screen girls. If you notice however, there’s two “tension points” that I put in there. These are the points where, depending on how she reacts, you’ll know pretty much instantly if she’s interested and/or sexually available.

If, for tension point #1, she laughs or says something flirty in return (“How did you know?”) then she’s likely pretty interested. If, for tension point #2, she giggles and gives you an IOI, then she’s definitely interested. This is a great example of screening, because girls who aren’t interested will immediately pull away or convey their disinterest.


Step 3. Be Sexually Assertive

Have you ever heard of the “instant make out”? It’s kind of the “holy grail” in the PUA community, because it demonstrates a keen sense of social dominance and intelligence. I’ve done plenty of “instant make outs,” because I know what to look for when a girl is just horny and wants to fuck.

For example, a couple nights ago I was walking through DC, and saw a girl gazing into my eyes from 15 feet away. She looked like she was in love or something. So, we locked eyes, and I slowly walked closer. I got closer, and she slowly moved closer to me. I opened my arms, and she fell into them. I looked into her eyes, and she looked up at me, and we made out.

**Note: DO NOT try this if you’re a newbie, because you’ll probably just end up getting smacked in the face.

The point is though, when you see an IOI, you should move on it FAST. Girls who are interested in you will respond favorably, and those who aren’t interested will immediately display their disinterest. Here’s a couple IOI’s and how I respond to them quickly:

  1. When she hugs me, I look down into her eyes to see if she’ll look back up with intense eye contact.
  2. When she brushes up against me (a common IOI), I’ll give her a hug and spike her emotions (with words)

If she shows sexual interest in me, I’ll very quickly suggest we “go outside for some fresh air.” Girls aren’t stupid, they know what this means (you’re trying to be alone with them). If she agrees, we go outside and hang out, maybe kiss a bit, and then I escalate further. “Hey, do you wanna go watch a movie at my place?”

Again, GIRLS AREN’T STUPID. They know what this means. Just come up with something fun to do back at your place, and if she agrees, she’s probably down to fuck. If she doesn’t, then maybe you just need to chat her up more and flirt more, until she’s comfortable with you. Ultimately this just comes down to MOVING FAST.


How to Get Laid FAQ’s

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I get asked this question a lot. “Jon, how do I get laid?”

I also get asked a lot of related questions, almost every day by email and DM.

So, I’ve put together some of my best answers for you. Here we go.


How to Get Laid

The simplest, and most efficient way to get laid, comes down to three things:

  • Look For IOI’s
  • Screen Hard
  • Be Sexually Assertive

That’s it. Now while you may not want to do this in a close social circle, at a club or during day game is fine.

Look for the indicators of interest that girls will often drop when they’re interested in you. Then, screen hard.

Ask where she’s staying for the night, who she’s with, and how she got here.

Once you’ve determined she wants to bang tonight, be sexually assertive, take the lead, and make things happen.


How to Get Laid on Tinder

Getting laid on Tinder is fairly similar, except the IOI’s are a bit different.

I’ve written a full guide on How to Get Laid on Tinder, so I recommend you read that if you want to know how.

That being said, here’s the general framework I use with Tinder:

  • Open w/ Sexuality Right Off The Bat
  • Screen Hard, Get Her Number
  • Set Date/Time on Number

That’s it. Again, I go into detail if you buy my full guide, but this is the plan you follow.

If you want to learn how to get laid on Tinder, that’s how.


How to Get Laid in High School

Getting laid in high school is unfortunately shallow, but hey, much of the world is shallow.

If you want to learn how to get laid in high school, here’s the answer: have social skills.

You can’t do much cold approach or “gaming” in high school, and instead, just have to be “cool.”

You can do this by being okay with yourself, branching out, and joining a lot of clubs and organizations.

Most of the sex that happens in high school will be because you’re just with a girl, and she’s horny.

For example, you took a girl to the prom, and now you’re hanging out at an after party.

…or maybe a girl has a crush on you, gets your number, and you’re watching a movie at her parents’ house.

If you want to know how to get laid in high school, the answer is pretty simple…

…just be a social guy, and eventually the opportunity will arise.


How to Get Laid in College

If you want to know how to get laid in college, the same principles apply (as they always do).

The biggest difference, as with high school, is that there’s more of an emphasis on social circle.

In college, join a ton of groups and organizations. Consider joining a fraternity.

From here, develop social skills and social calibration. Always have plausible deniability.

For example, at a party, invite a girl to go watch a movie at your place. That’s it.

College isn’t as socially competitive as high school, but it’s still more socially competitive than the real world.

So, you always want to have plausible deniability in everything you do (also avoid Title IX office bullshit).


Summary: How to Get Laid Fast

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In summary, screening women is the best way to get laid fast—and if you don’t know how to screen women, you’re SERIOUSLY missing out! Don’t waste hours talking to the wrong girls, and don’t invest your precious time and energy into women who aren’t interested in you. Instead, just learn to screen.

Screening is very real, and very effective. You won’t end up with girls who aren’t interested in you, and instead you’ll end up with tons of girls who want to jump your bones as soon as you get home. Learn to do this effectively, and I swear to you…IT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

If you want to learn how to 10x your attractiveness to women, and learn how to become a man that hot girls are NATURALLY drawn to, then click here to learn about my 7 Strategies dating program.

Of course, I hope you guys enjoyed the article. I’m doing a lot more game-specific posts now that I’ve got a lot of the general principles on the blog, so let me know what you think. If you guys have any questions or concerns, let me know in the comments section below—and as always, I’ll see you next time!

Frequently Asked Questions
❓ How Do You Get Laid?

The best way to get laid fast is to simply screen women hard. You can do this in a number of ways, but one great way is to start talking to her, and start flirting with her very quickly. If she is receptive, she's probably interested in sleeping with you fairly quickly.

Aside from this, dating applications are also a great way to get laid. In my experience, Tinder is the best, but Bumble and Hinge both work very well, too. There's a lot of different ways to get laid, but the fundamentals are all the same, though.

❓ How Do You Get Laid in College?

The best way to get laid in college is to join a fraternity. Become active in the fraternity, go out regularly, and eventually you'll meet a ton of girls that are into you. Most sorority girls will sleep with you, simply because you're in a fraternity, so getting laid is easy.

❓ How Do You Get Laid in High School?

The best way to get laid in high school is to join athletic clubs, and go to regular parties. High school is like a microcosm of college, so you must learn to become a social butterfly and make a lot of connections.

Simply put yourself in situations where getting laid can happen, like going to parties a lot, and eventually you'll find a girl who's attracted to you. From here you just talk to her, make her comfortable, and ask if she wants to watch a movie with you after the party.

❓ How Do You Get Laid Fast?

The best way to get laid fast is to either do so through Tinder, or cold approach on a Friday or Saturday night. In all honesty, Tinder is probably a lot faster, although it can take longer if the girls on there don't immediately respond to you.

The most important thing to remember is to screen hard. You can do this by flirting with a girl right off the bat, to know if she's interested in you, or just wants to keep things platonic. If she flirts back, escalate, and you'll get laid easy peasy.

About the Author Jon Anthony

Jon Anthony is a dating coach, fitness expert, and self-improvement guru. He dropped out of college to start Masculine Development in 2015, and has since been self-employed, helping men across the world achieve their best lives. You can best reach him on social media, or via email for questions.

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