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The Simplest Way to Get A Girl’s Number

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Do you know how to get a girl’s number? It’s actually not that hard.

Sure, there’s a ton of different ways to get a girl’s number… but one of my favorites is the “fast close.”

In this method, you follow a simple script, and it doesn’t take more than 30 seconds…

Here’s what it is.


How to Get A Girl’s Number

The simple script is meant to be used when you’re out and about, minding your own business, and you see a pretty girl you want to court.

Once you memorize this script, you will have no more questions about how to get a girl’s number.

The script goes like this…

“Hey, excuse me—I’ve got to go [do X activity] in a second, but I thought you looked absolutely adorable and wanted to grab your number. Is that cool?”

Yep, it’s literally that simple. And better yet, it won’t give you any approach anxiety, because you know exactly what to say.

Let’s say for example, that you’re at the gym.

What you’d say would be something like this: “Hey, excuse me—I’m in the middle of a workout, and I have to do my next set in a second, but I thought you looked really cute and wanted to grab your number. Is that cool?”

It’s extremely easy to remember, and is pretty powerful. Here’s why.


Why This Simple Line Works

The main reason it works, is because it takes all of the pressure off of her.

Some guys try to lock her into a 15 minute conversation, when she’s busy doing something else, and they wonder why she doesn’t like them.

I think it’s pretty obvious, no?

If you try to engage her for too long, she just sees you as a nuisance, because, well… you are (in that situation).

When you tell her you’ve got to go in a second, though… you take all the pressure off her.

Admittedly, this number close doesn’t have the highest conversion ratio.

But, it’s still one of my favorites to use when you’re pressed for time, and just want to see if you can get her number.


How to Get Her Number Anywhere

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As I said, this is probably one of my favorite lines ever.

Once you memorize it, you’ll never have a question about how to get a girl’s number again.

The reason why, is because you can use it literally whenever and wherever.

See a cute girl at the gym? Use this line.

Like a girl you see at the mall? Use this line.

See a pretty girl on the sidewalk? Use. This. Line.

It’s literally that simple. You just regurgitate the line I gave you, and voila—you’ll get some new numbers each week.


The W.I.N.S. Formula

Now I know what you’re thinking…

“Jon, won’t this only work if you’re jacked and good looking?” I can hear you ask.

Well, you’ve got a point there. Since this opener is so fast, she doesn’t have time to see your personality.

Most of her judgment will be made in that critical 10 second “first impression” window.

So, to maximize your chances (using this opener), follow the W.I.N.S. Formula:

  • Workout
  • Image
  • Nutrition
  • Shut the fuck up and take action

You should already be doing these things, but if you aren’t, then start.



Obviously, being jacked helps with your initial impression.

While women do care more about personality, when you’re trying to get her number from a 30 second conversation, looks help.

That’s why I recommend every guy on the PLANET follow my Body of an Alpha routine.

It’s specifically formulated to build the most physically attractive physique possible, within just a few months.

Even if you don’t use my personal workout routine, just find another that you like, and stick with it.

Get nice and lean, and build some muscles. Then, work on your image.



While men judge women on their looks, women judge men on their “image.”

This is a lot more than just looks… it’s what you do with your looks.

For example, my image would be the “cocky young badass,” for lack of a better term.

Some guys go for the “preppy” image, or the “young artist” image.

Your image is conveyed through your style, your choice of grooming, and your personality.

This is discussed more in-depth if you purchase my programs, but the basics are all over my blog for free.



While working out and having your image down are important, so is nutrition.

I discuss it all on this blog for free, as well as in my paid courses and products.

The basics of nutrition though, are these:

  • Eat high quality foods
  • Count your calories (unless you’re on ketosis)
  • Do intermittent fasting

That’s really it. Be sure to eat lots of high quality protein. Aim for one gram per pound of body weight.

Drink a green’s juice. I prefer the one from Chemical Free Body.

Also try to have a multi-vitamin each day. I also take NAC and L-Tyrosine daily for detoxing and neurotransmitter health.


Shut The Fuck Up

Okay. So now that you have everything else down, do you know what it’s time to do?

Shut the fuck up and take action. No amount of bitching or complaining will make girls interested in you.

Nope, none. Nada… zilch… zip.

Take fucking action, and you’ll learn how to get a girl’s number from experience.


Congruence (Your Vibe)

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I wrote about this in a previous article on how to get a girl’s number, but it warrants another discussion.

One big thing that women pick up on, is congruence… this is also known as your “vibe.”

It’s the general aura you give off, whether it’s creepy and needy, or calm and confident.

The goal is to not expect anything from her, and be in an outgoing, positive mood.

If you do this, your odds of getting her number increase drastically.

Of course, not every girl is going to like you. Some will come up with legitimate reasons to NOT give you their number.

Some might have boyfriends. Others, might just be lesbians or plainly uninterested.

Don’t take it personally. Rejection is never personal.

Just get experience, learn how to get a girl’s number FROM that experience, and keep plowing forward.


How to Triple Your Close Rate

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One other trick that I’ve been using lately, has been to ask girls for their Snapchat instead of their number.

While it may seem trivial, it’s actually extremely powerful. Hell, you can even ask them for their Instagram.

The reason this will nearly triple your close rate, is because girls are afraid of you, first and foremost.

They don’t know who you are, and the idea of going on a blind date with some guy they met for 30 seconds, is kind of intimidating.

If they get your Snapchat or Instagram though, they can do their normal “screening” of who you are.

Do you have friends? Are you a normal guy? Do you have an interesting life?

When you post these things on social media, other women will see them, and become more comfortable with you.

I could write an entire article on this concept (and I probably will), but for now just understand that a social media close is ALWAYS more powerful and effective than a number close.


Final Thoughts

In short, this is one of my favorite lines EVER. Once you memorize it, you will have no questions about how to get a girl’s number.

It won’t work all of the time, but the line works fairly often… often enough that it’s my favorite line, of course.

Once you get her number, read my article on how to text girls, and you’ll be sleeping with her in no time flat.

As I said, you want to follow the W.I.N.S. Formula and have your vibe down in order for this to work really well.

In addition to the W.I.N.S. Formula, here’s a few other articles that are recommended reading:

If you want to drastically improve your confidence, assertiveness, and dominance with women (and with life in general), then consider checking out my 7 Strategies program. It will literally 10x your attractiveness to women within just a matter of weeks.

I hope that you enjoyed the article, and as always if you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to let me know down below. I’ll see you guys next time.

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