This is easily the best article I’ve ever read on how to fuck a girl.
It was written by a girl I’m dating, for the men of this blog, to help them understand how women see sex.
If you want to know how to fuck women properly, and what they want in bed, then this post is a must read for you…
Look… I understand that you men have it hard. Women are notoriously difficult to please. We’re fickle, emotional, and can change our mind on the turn of a dime.
On top of things, feminism has made it even harder for men. You guys don’t always know how to act, or what to do. Holding open the door for one girl could get you her appreciation, and holding it open for the next could get you yelled at.
We live in strange times indeed.
But when it comes down to it… when it comes down to fucking, all women really want the same things.
Believe me, we do. It doesn’t matter what you’ve heard from your buddies, because I hear these things from my female friends on a day-by-day basis.
It’s always the same. Damn. Thing.
So for the love of God…for your sake, for your girlfriend’s sake, and for your marriage’s sake, please listen up. Okay?
Here’s some tips on how to fuck a girl properly.
I know you might find this hard to believe… but us girls do like getting fucked rough sometimes.
Sure, there’s a time to be really sweet, and make slow, passionate sex.
…but, there’s also a time to fuck our brains out and put us in our place.
You’ll have to determine which time is which.
Have you ever wondered why EVERY single romance novel women read, and especially the best-selling ones, are almost ALWAYS about a strong, confident alpha male?
You don’t see any bitchy soy boys in “50 Shades of Grey” or “Love Drunk Cowboy,” for a reason. As much as you see it encouraged in the media, women HATE weak men.
We’ll never admit it to you, because it’s not our job to teach you how to be men… but when a guy can fuck you hard in the bedroom, we instinctively know he’s a man.
We fall in line.
While there may be some women who will disagree, most of us want the man to take charge.
No, it isn’t “sweet” when you ask us if you can “proceed” like some scared little boy.
Just take what you want, and do it unapologetically.
Obviously don’t be an idiot. If we back up or seem hesitant, please do ask if something’s wrong.
But most of the time, when you just take charge in the bedroom, it’s a HUGE turn on.
Side note from Jon: Sex is a microcosm of life, guys. If you’re confident, aggressive, and dominant in the bedroom, it’s a sign that you act that way towards LIFE. Anyways, continue…
Again, we don’t want some little boy who we need to TEACH how to be a man. Grow a pair and start taking charge, in the bedroom and in your relationship.
You’re the man. Act like it.
“Y-you mean I can fuck you like a porn star?”
YES. I DO.
Believe it or not, women do like to be fucked…and fucked hard. Again, why do you think the best-selling romance novel (it’s basically porn) is “50 Shades of Grey?”
A book about a billionaire alpha male who ties a young employee up, spanks her, throat fucks her, and pounds her pussy until she can’t walk straight?
Because it makes us wet.
YES. I KNOW THAT MAY BE HARD TO BELIEVE.
But women like getting fucked hard. So start doing it. There’s nothing more unattractive than a man who can’t last long, and blows his load after three gentle thrusts.
Side note from Jon: consider reading my article on how to last longer in bed.
There’s nothing more awkward than silent sex.
Am I doing a good job? Does my pussy feel good to you? I can never tell if you’re just dead silent.
It’s also a HUGE turnoff, too. Girls don’t want you to be a ninja, guys—we want to hear everything.
Grunt. Moan. Talk dirty. Tell us how much of a dirty whore we’ve been, and that you’re going to teach us a lesson tonight.
Again… obviously not all girls will like this. But many do.
Start by spanking her lightly and gauge her response. If she seems to like it, continue forward.
Hearing a guy tell us that he’s going to cum is, without a doubt, one of the hottest things in the world. And that actually brings me to my next point…
Okay, no, that doesn’t mean getting it all over our face (although that can be nice, sometimes).
It just means we like to hear you cum.
We like it when you tell us you’re going to cum inside of us.
We like it when you groan and grunt as you blow your load all over our ass.
We like it when you cum.
It’s called the “money shot” for a reason, sweetheart—it’s the best part.
So please, don’t hide it. Don’t be shy. Yell it to the whole world that you’re going to cum inside of us, and most of the time, we’ll like it.
There’s more nerve endings in just the clit ALONE than in the entire male penis combined.
That’s a lot of pleasure.
There isn’t a “magic button” to turning her on, but if there was, it would be this…
Learn to respect the clit.
Start by gently putting two fingers near the entrance to the vagina, and pressing your thumb on her clit for some light pressure.
Ask her if she likes it. Most girls will tell you what they want, because each clit is different.
Some girls like a lot of pressure. Some girls like a little bit of pressure.
Some girls like it to be rubbed, and others just like it to be pressed down on.
But one thing is for certain: don’t ignore the clit.
This is something a lot of guys don’t understand.
For women, sex is psychological. It takes us a while to get warmed up.
But once we get warmed up… we’re like a raging fire.
Men are ready to go at the drop of the hat.
But women? We take time.
For us, it isn’t even the sex, but the BUILDUP that makes it so good. Tease us, and talk about things that get our imagination working.
Tell us what you’re going to do to us…
Tell us what you want us to do to you…
Kiss us, grab us, play with us…
…until we’re so wet that we’re tearing your pants off and begging you to fuck us.
There you have it, boys. I don’t usually publish guest posts, but when my girl submitted this one I just had to put it out there for y’all to read.
Obviously, don’t be an idiot. Some girls won’t be into rough sex, and “rough sex” doesn’t necessarily mean chains and whips. But in my experience, at least 90% of girls do like a lot of these things.
Test the waters. Be smart. Don’t be an idiot and just start smacking her and calling her a slut. Start off with spanking, and work your way up. Start with LIGHT dirty talk, and proceed if she likes it.
“B-b-but Jon, I don’t even have a girl to sleep with!” someone might ask. Well, if that’s the case, then grab yourself a copy of my “7 Strategies to Develop Your Masculinity” and thank me later. It will make you at least 10x more attractive to women, so that you NATURALLY draw them into your life.
As always, I hope you guys enjoyed the article, and I will see you next time!
Jon Anthony is a world renowned dating coach and the founder of Masculine Development, a website specifically dedicated to helping men improve their personal, dating, and financial lives. After years of training men how to attract women, build muscle, and make more money, Jon created the "7 Strategies" program to help kickstart your journey to success. Jon firmly believes that every man should have control over his own life, and he created Masculine Development to share his passion with men who want success in all areas.