This is easily the best article I’ve ever read on how to fuck a girl.
It was written by a girl I’m dating, for the men of this blog, to help them understand what women want in bed.
If you want to know how to fuck women properly, and what they want in bed, then this post is a must read for you…
Look… I understand that you men have it hard. Women are notoriously difficult to please.
We’re fickle, emotional, and can change our mind on the turn of a dime.
On top of things, female privilege has made it even harder for men. You guys don’t always know how to act, or what to do.
Holding open the door for one girl could get you her appreciation, and holding it open for the next could get you yelled at.
We live in strange times indeed.
But when it comes down to it… when it comes down to fucking, all women really want the same things in bed.
You can read The Sex God Method to see understand why.
Believe me, we do. It doesn’t matter what you’ve heard from your buddies, because I hear these things from my female friends on a day-by-day basis.
It’s always the same. Damn. Thing. Guys don’t know how to fuck a girl right.
So for the love of God…for your sake, for your girlfriend’s sake, and for your marriage’s sake, please listen up. Okay?
Here’s some tips on how to fuck a girl properly.
I know you might find this hard to believe… but us girls do like getting fucked rough sometimes.
Sure, there’s a time to be really sweet, and make slow, passionate sex.
…but, there’s also a time to fuck our brains out and put us in our place.
You’ll have to determine which time is which.
Have you ever wondered why EVERY single romance novel women read, and especially the best-selling ones, are almost ALWAYS about a strong, confident?
Have you ever wondered why girls ALWAYS want a man who knows how to be an alpha male, and isn’t a whiny little bitch?
You don’t see any bitchy soy boys in “50 Shades of Grey” or “Love Drunk Cowboy,” for a reason.
As much as you see it encouraged in the media, women HATE weak men. Weak men don’t know how to fuck a girl properly.
We’ll never admit it to you, because it’s not our job to teach you how to be men…
…but when a guy can fuck you hard in the bedroom, we instinctively know he’s a man.
We fall in line.
While there may be some women who will disagree, most of us want the man to take charge… even if we SAY we don’t, it’s still a shit test.
No, it isn’t “sweet” when you ask us if you can “proceed” like some scared little boy.
Just take what you want, and do it unapologetically.
Obviously don’t be an idiot. If we back up or seem hesitant, please do ask if something’s wrong. Learn to read our IOI’s for God’s sake.
But most of the time, when you just take charge in the bedroom, it’s a HUGE turn on.
Again, we don’t want some little boy who we need to TEACH how to be a man.
Grow a pair and start taking charge, in the bedroom and in your relationship.
You’re the man. Act like it.
“Y-you mean I can fuck you like a porn star?”
YES. I DO.
Believe it or not, women do like to be fucked…and fucked hard.
Again, why do you think the best-selling romance novel (it’s basically porn) is “50 Shades of Grey?”
A book about a billionaire alpha male who ties a young employee up, spanks her, throat fucks her, and pounds her pussy until she can’t walk straight?
Because it makes us wet. This is female hypergamy at work.
YES. I KNOW THAT MAY BE HARD TO BELIEVE.
But women like getting fucked hard. So start doing it. Learn how to fuck a girl well, and she will love you forever.
BUT, there’s nothing more unattractive than a man who can’t last long, and blows his load after three gentle thrusts.
There’s nothing more awkward than silent sex.
Am I doing a good job? Does my pussy feel good to you? I can never tell if you’re just dead silent.
It’s also a HUGE turnoff, too. Girls don’t want you to be a ninja, guys—we want to hear everything.
Grunt. Moan. Talk dirty. Tell us how much of a dirty whore we’ve been, and that you’re going to teach us a lesson tonight.
When you embody your masculine energy, it puts us in our feminine… and masculine energy is dominant, plain and simple.
Again… obviously not all girls will like this. But many do.
Start by spanking her lightly and gauge her response. If she seems to like it, continue forward.
Hearing a guy tell us that he’s going to cum is, without a doubt, one of the hottest things in the world. And that actually brings me to my next point…
Okay, no, that doesn’t mean getting it all over our face (although that can be nice, sometimes).
It just means we like to hear you cum.
We like it when you tell us you’re going to cum inside of us.
We like it when you groan and grunt as you blow your load all over our ass.
We like it when you cum.
It’s called the “money shot” for a reason, sweetheart—it’s the best part.
So please, don’t hide it. Don’t be shy. Yell it to the whole world that you’re going to cum inside of us, and most of the time, we’ll like it.
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…but, even if you don’t cum as much as a porn star, the bottom line is that we love your cum. So please, emphasize it.
If you want to know how to fuck a girl properly, then know the clit.
…because there’s more nerve endings in just the clit ALONE than in the entire male penis combined.
That’s a lot of pleasure.
There isn’t a “magic button” to turning her on, but if there was, it would be this…
Learn to respect the clit.
If you want to know how to get laid, and how to KEEP getting laid, then learn to give us great sex by playing with our clits.
Start by gently putting two fingers near the entrance to the vagina, and pressing your thumb on her clit for some light pressure.
Ask her if she likes it. Most girls will tell you what they want, because each clit is different.
Some girls like a lot of pressure. Some girls like a little bit of pressure.
Some girls like it to be rubbed, and others just like it to be pressed down on.
But one thing is for certain: don’t ignore the clit.
This is something a lot of guys don’t understand. Most guys don’t ever start understanding women, and this is so key.
For women, sex is psychological. It takes us a while to get warmed up.
But once we get warmed up… we’re like a raging fire.
Men are ready to go at the drop of the hat.
But women? We take time.
For us, it isn’t even the sex, but the BUILDUP that makes it so good. Tease us, and talk about things that get our imagination working.
Tell us what you’re going to do to us…
Tell us what you want us to do to you…
Kiss us, grab us, play with us…
…until we’re so wet that we’re tearing your pants off and begging you to fuck us.
It’s a man who can take control.
Seriously, most guys don’t know this, but what women really care about is NOT the size of your package…
A much bigger turn-on, is when a man can take control in the bedroom.
(Personally, nothing makes me wetter than thinking about Jon, who does this better than any guy I’ve ever met… *mmmm*)
And you know… I’ve slept with guys who were maybe a little taller, richer, or better looking… but none of them knew how to be dominant in bed…
Or how to take control…
Or how to throw me around and bark orders at me.
And it really just ruined the experience for me, and made it difficult for me to enjoy it all.
Men, listen up… in order to fuck a woman well, in a way that makes her EXCITED to bang you again & again… you’ve gotta be able to be dominant in the bed room.
And that means doing everything in your power to learn about how to be an alpha male, so you can get make her cum whenever you want… and keep her addicted to your d*ck so she doesn’t go fuck another guy.
And there’s a really easy way to unleash your inner alpha male, using 7 simple strategies and exercises that you can do in minutes.
Above all else, women want a dominant man who knows how to fuck them right. They want a man who can take charge in the bedroom, make them squirt, and give them incredible orgasms.
Absolutely. All women love to fuck, IF you know how to fuck a girl properly. If you don't, then she's not going to want to sleep with you, but if you can give her great sex, she'll come back for more and more.
Usually, yes. All women are different, but according to science, most women admit that they enjoy being dominated by an alpha male in the bedroom. Just think of 50 Shades of Gray. There's a reason why it sold so well!
Try pulling your woman's hair the next time you fuck her. Try spanking her, talking dirty, and potentially engaging in some role play. Learning how to fuck a girl depends on the specific girl you're with, but in general, many women like it rough.
Jon Anthony is a world renowned dating coach and the founder of Masculine Development, a website specifically dedicated to helping men improve their personal, dating, and financial lives. After years of training men how to attract women, build muscle, and make more money, Jon created the "7 Strategies" program to help kickstart your journey to success. Jon firmly believes that every man should have control over his own life, and he created Masculine Development to share his passion with men who want success in all areas.