When you start sleeping with beautiful women, one thing you’ll learn very quickly is that most men are TERRIBLE in bed.
They either don’t last long enough, don’t know how to make her climax, or don’t have sex with any passion…and that’s assuming that they even have enough game to make her attracted in the first place.
One of the easiest, simplest, and most EFFECTIVE ways to have amazing sex I’ve come across is known as the “DEVI” method, or the “Sex God Method.”
Whether you apply this to your wife of 20 years, your girlfriend of 8 months, or a cute little one night stand you met in Vegas, she’s guaranteed to love it.
First off, let’s debunk some of the myths about women and sex. The BIGGEST myth that I see guys constantly buying into, is that they think she’s this sweet little innocent angel, who’s a “good girl,” and who’s NEVER had rough sex.
This is absolute bullshit. Most women actually love sex MORE than men…they just can’t show it, because they’ll be “slut-shamed.”
Women want you to give her amazing sex, but they don’t want to teach you HOW to do it. They want you to take control, and know what you’re doing, which is what the sex god method will help you do.
Here are some other myths that you need to get out of your head right now:
All of these things are complete horse shit. Beta cucks and chodes believe them, due to media brainwashing, but they’re lies. Women have 4x as many pleasure receptors JUST on their clitoris, as men do in their ENTIRE penis.
Like I said, women probably like sex more than you do. As a general rule, if you think it’s hot, there’s a good chance she might like it, as well. For women, sex is much more about the entire experience, than it is about one individual thing.
Obviously having a bigger dick will feel better for her, but if you don’t have a big dick, it’s not a big deal (unless you’re like 2 inches). Follow the DEVI method, otherwise known as the sex god method, and you’ll be making her squirt in no time.
The DEVI method consists of four different characteristics, that when combined, will give her mind-blowing sex, and will literally make her addicted to your dick like a junkie craves heroin. This is powerful stuff.
DEVI is an acronym, with each letter standing for a different component:
When combined, you’ll give her some of the most amazing sex she’s ever had in her entire life. Most guys are completely insecure, shy, timid little bitches when it comes to sleeping with women. This isn’t attractive.
Instead, practice applying the DEVI method and watch your flake rate go down, your retention rate go up, and your sex get better each time.
Why is it that 50 Shades of Grey has sold over 125 MILLION copies to date, and has topped best-seller lists around the world? The answer, despite what you may think, is actually pretty fucking simple. Only an idiot could miss it.
Women like dominant men, especially in the bedroom. They want to have their hair pulled, their arms pinned down, and they want to be fucked.
Some want to be spanked, choked, smacked, and even spat on. I’d say that, based off of my triple-digit notch count, the following statistic applies:
Obviously this isn’t any sort of scientific analysis, but I’ve slept with more women than most. This has been my experience: when I act dominant women like it. When I tear off their clothes, pin them down, and fuck them, they like it.
No, that doesn’t mean to rape her. Don’t be a dumbass. Learn to get consent and tell if she wants to sleep with you or not.
If she does though, don’t be afraid to be dominant. Don’t be afraid to pin her down, pull her hair, and spank her. I usually do it in the order I listed above, and work my way down.
In other words, I’ll pin her arms down, and 99% of women are okay with this. Then, at some point, I’ll pull her hair. Most women are also okay with this. Then, I’ll spank her, and see if she’s okay with that.
I’m always in tune with what she likes and what she doesn’t, because here’s the thing guys—sometimes women WANT you to be dominant, but won’t tell you. They just want you to be dominant. They want you to be a man.
Emotion is a big turn on for women. Whether it’s positive emotions like love, lust, and intimacy, negative emotions like anger, or even other emotions such as shock and surprise, emotions are generally a turn on for women.
During foreplay, and when you’re having sex with her, say and do things that will spike her emotions.
Call her a dirty little slut and hate-fuck her, or tell her that you love her and ravish her. Either one will be great sex, if the emotion is actually there. You can’t fake emotions, but you can get better at feeling them and eliciting them.
Sometimes I’ll just walk up behind my girlfriend and surprise her by pinning her up against the wall and kissing her. The feeling of shock and unexpectedness adds to the eroticism—it turns her on even more.
Try having sex in “dangerous,” places that elicit a sense of riskiness or adventurousness. Varying your location is a great way to add extra emotion to your sex, but it isn’t necessary. All that’s necessary is that you make her feel emotions when you’re having sex.
“What if it’s a one night stand?” someone may ask. That’s fine—you can still make her feel emotions. Make her feel naughty by talking dirty. Order her to squirt. Tell her that she’s gorgeous. Just don’t be a damn starfish.
The third characteristic of the sex god method is variety. This one is to prevent things from getting too boring. A lot of couples fall into the same lame routine of always having sex in the same place under the same circumstances…don’t do this.
If you want to have amazing sex, you need to add variety. Change the location. Change the time. Change the circumstances. Try different things. Just don’t do the same over and over again.
If you always fuck her in your bed, try fucking her on your couch, on the floor, in your car, in a tent, or WHEREVER. Just change up the location. If you always have sex during the night, have it during the day, or first thing in the morning.
Eat her out, have her suck you off, do anal, do different positions, from cowgirl to doggystyle to weird Kama Sutra shit. Just add some VARIETY! Have sex on the beach, have sex while you’re high, or drunk, or WHATEVER.
Just change things up. Nobody likes a boring sex life. You can even try role playing and bondage if she’s into that type of stuff, just don’t let it get stale.
Intensity is probably the most difficult of the four characteristics to master, but it’s necessary to having amazing sex. Intensity is basically how present to the moment you are.
If you’re anxious and nervous and all in your head, thinking about what you should do, it won’t be very intense. Intensity requires 100% focus on the moment at-hand. It requires complete dedication to the present.
You can increase intensity by looking her in the eye and focusing on all of the sensations you’re experiencing.
Take it all in. Focus on how she smells, how she sounds, how she tastes, and how it feels. Focus on what’s going on in the present moment. Look her in the eyes and tell her that you want her to cum. That’s a great way to combine intensity with dominance.
You can indirectly cultivate intensity by meditating each day. Meditation trains your mind to focus on the present moment, and to ignore pesky little thoughts that distract you from the beauty of the now.
Most women don’t ever have sex with a man who’s present, so she’ll really appreciate it when you make her feel like she’s the only girl in the world, and all of your focus is on her.
Most men are TERRIBLE in bed, and have very little experience when it comes to pleasing women. If you want to have a great relationship filled with intimacy and passion, however, you need to have good sex. Period.
When you combine dominance, emotion, variety, and intensity altogether, you’ll give her the most amazing sex of her life. If you have a big dick and can last for a long time, then that’s even better.
Try adding some of the things I recommended to your sex life, and watch how much better it gets. Don’t be afraid, that she’s “too innocent,” or whatever. Bullshit. Deep down, she loves sex, just like guys do.
If you have any questions or concerns, let me know in the comments section down below. As always, I’ll see you guys next time.
Jon Anthony is a world renowned dating coach and the founder of Masculine Development, a website specifically dedicated to helping men improve their personal, dating, and financial lives. After years of training men how to attract women, build muscle, and make more money, Jon created the "7 Strategies" program to help kickstart your journey to success. Jon firmly believes that every man should have control over his own life, and he created Masculine Development to share his passion with men who want success in all areas.
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