Most men give women terrible sex, because they don’t understand the Sex God Method, which basically tells you what women want in bed.
They either don’t last long enough, don’t know how to make her climax, or don’t have sex with any passion…and that’s assuming that they even have enough game to make her attracted in the first place.
One of the easiest, simplest, and most EFFECTIVE ways to have amazing sex I’ve come across is known as the “Sex God Method.”
Whether you apply this to your wife of 20 years, your girlfriend of 8 months, or a cute little one night stand you met in Vegas, she’s guaranteed to love it.
First off, let’s debunk some of the myths about women and sex.
The BIGGEST myth that I see guys constantly buying into, is that they think she’s this sweet little innocent angel, who’s a “good girl,” and who’s NEVER had rough sex.
This is absolute bullshit. Most women actually love sex MORE than men…they just can’t show it, because they’ll be “slut-shamed.”
Women want you to give her amazing sex, but they don’t want to teach you HOW to do it. They want you to take control, and know what you’re doing, which is what the sex god method will help you do.
Here are some other myths about women and sex:
All of these things are complete horse shit. Beta cucks and chodes believe them, due to media brainwashing, but they’re lies. Women have 4x as many pleasure receptors JUST on their clitoris, as men do in their ENTIRE penis.
…and, if you can learn how to fuck a girl the right way, she will literally be addicted to your dick. I’m not joking. I still have one night stands hit me up that I banged over a year ago.
Like I said, women probably like sex more than you do. As a general rule, if you think it’s hot, there’s a good chance she might like it, as well. For women, sex is much more about the entire experience, than it is about one individual thing.
Obviously having a bigger dick will feel better for her, but if you don’t have a big dick, it’s not a big deal (unless you’re like 2 inches). Follow the sex god method, and you’ll be making her squirt in no time.
First off, if you haven’t read the actual book, I highly recommend it. You can get it from Amazon in paperback format if you want.
The sex god method consists of four different characteristics, that when combined, will give her mind-blowing sex, and will literally make her addicted to your dick like a junkie craves heroin. This is powerful stuff.
DEVI is an acronym, with each letter standing for a different component:
When combined, you’ll give her some of the most amazing sex she’s ever had in her entire life. Most guys are completely insecure, shy, timid little bitches when it comes to sleeping with women. This isn’t attractive.
Instead, practice applying the sex god method and watch your flake rate go down, your retention rate go up, and your sex get better each time.
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Being dominant is probably the most important component of the sex god method… but first, let me ask you a question.
Why is it that 50 Shades of Grey has sold over 125 MILLION copies to date, and has topped best-seller lists around the world? The answer, despite what you may think, is actually pretty fucking simple. Only an idiot could miss it.
Women like dominant men, especially in the bedroom. They want to have their hair pulled, their arms pinned down, and they want to be fucked.
Some want to be spanked, choked, smacked, and even spat on. I’d say that, based off of my triple-digit notch count, the following statistic applies:
Obviously this isn’t any sort of scientific analysis, but I’ve slept with quite a few girls in my time, and this is the conclusion I’ve come to.
After reading the sex god method, you’ll probably come to the same conclusion as well. Women want to be fucked…hard.
No, that doesn’t mean to rape her. Don’t be a dumbass. Learn to get consent, read her mixed signals, and tell if she’s into it or not.
If she is into it though, don’t be afraid to be dominant. Don’t be afraid to pin her down, pull her hair, and spank her. I usually do it in the order I listed above, and work my way down.
In other words, I’ll pin her arms down, and 99% of women are okay with this. Then, at some point, I’ll pull her hair. Most women are also okay with this. Then, I’ll spank her, and see if she’s okay with that.
An important part of using the sex god method, is to understand what she’s feeling and thinking. Sex is about connection, and this is key.
I’m always in tune with what she likes and what she doesn’t, because here’s the thing guys—sometimes women WANT you to be dominant, but won’t tell you. They just want you to be dominant. They want you to be a man.
If you read the sex god method, you’ll learn that emotion is a big turn on for women. In fact, the biggest sex organ a woman has is her brain.
Whether it’s positive emotions like love, lust, and intimacy, negative emotions like anger, or even other emotions such as shock and surprise, emotions are generally a turn on for women.
During foreplay, and when you’re having sex with her, say and do things that will make her feel things for you. Learn how to talk to girls in a way that spikes her emotions the right way.
Call her a dirty little slut and hate-fuck her, or tell her that you love her and ravish her. Either one will be great sex, if the emotion is actually there.
This is REALLY important to understand. You can’t “fake” the sex god method. You have to actually FEEL and INTERNALIZE IT.
…and while you can’t fake emotions, you can still get better at feeling them and eliciting them, with some practice of course.
Sometimes I’ll just walk up behind my girlfriend and surprise her by pinning her up against the wall and kissing her. The feeling of shock and unexpectedness adds to the eroticism—it turns her on even more.
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Another tip from the sex god method book is to try having sex in “dangerous,” places that elicit a sense of riskiness or adventurousness.
Varying your location is a great way to add extra emotion to your sex, but it isn’t necessary. All that’s necessary is that you make her feel emotions when you’re having sex.
“What if it’s a one night stand?” someone may ask. That’s fine—you can still make her feel emotions. Make her feel naughty by talking dirty. Order her to squirt. Tell her that she’s gorgeous. Just don’t be a damn starfish.
The third characteristic of the sex god method is variety. This one is to prevent things from getting too boring.
A lot of couples fall into the same lame routine of always having sex in the same place under the same circumstances…don’t do this.
If you want to have amazing sex, you need to add variety. This is one of the best tips I got from reading the sex god method, because it’s so easy to do.
Change the location. Change the time. Change the circumstances. Try different things. Just don’t do the same over and over again.
Understanding women isn’t hard. They’re emotional creatures by nature, which means they want to experience new things. Obviously men do too, to an extent, but women are much more aroused by novelty than men.
If you always fuck her in your bed, try fucking her on your couch, on the floor, in your car, in a tent, or WHEREVER. Just change up the location.
If you always have sex during the night, have it during the day, or first thing in the morning. Use the sex god method to add some variety to your life.
Eat her out, have her suck you off, do anal, do different positions, from cowgirl to doggystyle to weird Kama Sutra shit. Just add some VARIETY!
Have sex on the beach, have sex while you’re high, or drunk, or whatever you want. The sex god method is about adding variety to your love life.
In fact, if you want to know the #1 reason why women cheat, this is usually why. When you aren’t doing anything interesting with your life, women get bored. I hate to break it to you, but that’s just the sad reality.
So, learn to change things up using the sex god method. Nobody likes a boring sex life, or a boring life for that matter. You can even try role playing and bondage if she’s into that type of stuff, just don’t let it get stale.
Intensity is probably the most difficult part of the sex god method to master, but it’s necessary to having amazing sex. Intensity is basically how present to the moment you are.
In fact, if you can take the time to develop your intensity, you’ll never have to ask how to get laid ever again. Why? It’s simple—women love men who are intense. It means they’re grounded in their masculine energy.
If you’re anxious and nervous and all in your head, thinking about what you should do, it won’t be very intense. Intensity requires 100% focus on the moment at-hand. It requires complete dedication to the present.
You can increase intensity by looking her in the eye and focusing on all of the sensations you’re experiencing.
Take it all in. Focus on how she smells, how she sounds, how she tastes, and how it feels. Focus on what’s going on in the present moment.
Look her in the eyes and tell her that you want her to cum. That’s a great way to combine intensity with dominance, using the sex god method.
You can indirectly cultivate intensity by meditating each day. Meditation trains your mind to focus on the present moment, and to ignore pesky little thoughts that distract you from the beauty of the now.
Most women don’t ever have sex with a man who’s present, so she’ll really appreciate it when you make her feel like she’s the only girl in the world, and all of your focus is on her.
Alright, so now that we’ve covered the four critical components of the sex god method, let’s talk about how to use it.
The first and easiest thing you can do to start using this method today, is to simply start being slightly more dominant in the bedroom.
You can experiment with pulling her hair to start, and if she responds well to this, you can move onto kinkier things.
Start by pulling her hair, and then talk dirty to her. Tell her how much you want to fuck her, and how you’re going to make her pussy sore.
If she responds well, you can try grabbing her face gently, and if she responds well, lightly smack her to see how she responds.
Again, the key is nuance. You want to start off with little things like this, and then if she responds well, start escalating until you find the sweet spot.
Most men are TERRIBLE in bed, and have very little experience when it comes to pleasing women. If you want to have a great relationship filled with intimacy and passion, however, you need to have good sex. Period.
But, giving girls great sex is only one part of the equation. You also have to be good at meeting them, talking to them, and attracting them.
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All in all, I hope you enjoyed the article. If you have any questions, just let me know down below—and as always, I’ll see you next time!
Jon Anthony is a dating coach, fitness expert, and self-improvement guru. He dropped out of college to start Masculine Development in 2015, and has since been self-employed, helping men across the world achieve their best lives. You can best reach him on social media, or via email for questions.