When it comes to hitting on girls, your “opening line” is often the most important thing you say. Far too many guys go in without a plan, just saying whatever comes to mind. And while this does work if you’re a “natural,” it doesn’t work for most of us. That’s why it’s important you familiarize […]
Read MoreTons of guys are lost when it comes to girls. “Why are they so complicated?” they proclaim. “Why do girls always give me mixed signals?” they’ll say. Funny enough, girls actually aren’t that complicated…that is, if you know what indicators of interest to look for. Guys are pretty upfront with their attraction. In fact, girls […]
Read MoreAh, text game—the idea that you can somehow make a girl wet over the phone and have her back at your place faster than a New York minute. Is it true, though? Can you really get a woman hooked on you just from texting her? If so, what do you message her to make it […]
Read MoreWhy do girls give you mixed signals? Well, tell me if this has happened to you. You’re flirting with a friend, and everything seems to be going great. She’s giving you sensual eye contact, playing with her hair, and maybe even overtly flirting a bit back. Then, the next day you text her. No response. […]
Read MoreTell me if this has ever happened to you… You feel like you’ve been doing everything right. You’ve been hitting the gym, you’ve been working on your game, and you’ve even been making a little bit of extra money on the side. …but for some reason, girls don’t seem to pay any attention to you. […]
Read MoreI use the terms “game” and “attraction” interchangeably, in part because there’s a lot of overlap between these two terms, but also in part for ease of writing. Terms like “value,” or “attraction,” or “game,” or “status,” are often thrown around in the pickup community without many people fully understanding what they mean. There is […]
Read MoreGuys ask me all the time how to get laid. They tell me that they can’t get laid, no matter how hard they try! This sucks, and I’m here to help. There’s a lot of reasons why guys don’t get laid. There’s the most common reason, which is that they don’t go out—but then there’s […]
Read MorePart of game is technique, while part of game is your mindset. It’s important to approach relationships with the proper frame; primarily one of confidence, assumed attraction, and higher value. The other part of game however, which I think is a bit over-discussed, is technique. While techniques are certainly great for getting a quick improvement […]
Read MoreI always get questions from guys that go something like this. “Hey Jon, I’m a short 5’2% Indian guy with a very thick accent,” they’ll say. “I really want to get laid, and want to learn pickup, but it just doesn’t seem like white girls are very into me. Is it possible for me to […]
Read MoreThere’s a lot of benefits to learning game. From higher self-esteem to better social skills, learning game certainly has the potential to transform any man’s life for the better. Yet even so, there’s a “dark side of game,” that is often ignored. I’ve seen some of the most incredible transformations take place, all thanks to […]
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