If I asked you right now, if you wanted either a Lamborghini or a Toyota Camry, which would you choose? Obviously you’d take the Lamborghini. So why is this? Well, it’s because we all recognize on some level that appearances matter…at least for the first impression.
So if we acknowledge that a first impression is important, why do so many men refuse to get their shit together when it comes to making a good impression on women? When you first meet a girl, the way you’re dressed and the accessories you wear can literally make or break you.
In my experience, game is king—but appearance is an often overlooked component of getting girls. Especially when it comes to younger women (the 18-22 year old bracket), appearance is often valued more than social status or other SMV characteristics.
“So how do I maximize my appearance, Jon?” becomes the next logical question. Well there’s a lot that you can do, but fortunately looking like more of a “bad boy” isn’t that hard. In fact, there’s a few quick fixes you can make to your appearance that will INSTANTLY add some edge. Here they are.
What’s up, guys. My last article was pretty deep, covering the different cycles of self-development that men go through over the years, so I thought I’d keep it light with a quick post on style.
As I’ve said many times before, style is one of those things that is pretty easy to get down, and it gives you a lot of benefits. Some people might say it’s shallow, and I’d agree, but think of it like this: are you more attracted to a woman in sweatpants and a sweatshirt, or in a cocktail dress with her makeup and accessories all matching?
Obviously the latter, and the same goes for women—they’re more attracted to men who have some style. To be fair, women don’t care that much about looks, but they’ll definitely help you if your game isn’t very good yet.
Plus, having style will make other men respect you more. For some reason, human beings just associate “high status” with “stylish,” so you might as well take advantage of it.
It’s no secret that having white teeth really completes the package of being “that hot guy.” Sure, having clear skin, a chiseled body, and style definitely helps, but white teeth is kind of like the icing on top of the cake.
In fact, a surprising number of girls actually say it’s one of the most attractive characteristics in a man. Personally, I think this is bullshit, but there’s still no denying that whitening your teeth is a great way to become more attractive.
“But isn’t that expensive, Jon?” I can hear someone ask. Yeah, if you overpay some dentist to do it, it is. But in this article I’m going to show you how to whiten your teeth for pennies a day (it’s fast and easy, too).
In my experience, some of the best men’s colognes are pretty inexpensive. Sure, there’s plenty of great “designer” colognes that will cost you a whopping $500 per bottle. But in all honesty, you don’t need to shell out $500 per bottle to get some good cologne (I had to learn this the hard way).
In fact, you don’t even need to shell out $50 for a bottle. Sure, there’s some great colognes that will run you $50-100 per bottle, but why spend that much money when you can spend $3/month on an equally effective cologne?
Here’s my top 3 best men’s colognes (from experience) for less than $3 a month.
I’ve spent years looking for the best men’s skincare routine…and I’ve tried a lot of different products. The problem is often times that the only products that work cost $300 a month…and even then, very few of them actually do work.
I’ve always had pretty bad skin—in fact, I even went on Accutane when I was 16 years old, to no avail. I remember being extremely frustrated that even dermatologists couldn’t help me. I felt like I would’ve been way more attractive if I just had better skin.
I was put on tons of different men’s skincare routines by different dermatologists, but none of them worked. In fact, some of them seemed to make my skin get even WORSE over time.
Salicylic acid, isotetrin, Cetaphil, Benzoyl Peroxide, Clindamycin…the list goes on and on. Why couldn’t I find a men’s skincare routine that actually worked, even after dumping hundreds of dollars into a so called professional’s pocket?
The answer is that 99% of Dermatologists don’t know shit.
It’s no secret that having a chiseled jawline makes you more attractive to women. In fact, studies have shown that a man’s jawline is the number one determinant of whether or not a man’s face is attractive to the opposite sex.
Every single sex symbol out there, whether it be Brad Pitt or Taylor Lautner, has a chiseled jawline. There’s just no way around this: if you want to turn heads, and have women approach YOU, you need to develop a chiseled jawline.
Yes, you should still learn how to spit game on girls, how to dress well, and how to be more confident to attract women…but why not make things easier on yourself, and maximize your looks? It’s pretty easy to do, too. You can easily get a more chiseled jawline in a month.
Men’s accessories will either make you or break you. They can make you look sexy and intriguing, or like a 16 year old boy who’s trying to pull girls by wearing his dad’s Rolex.
Good men’s accessories accentuate your outfit and give girls an excuse to open you.
I’ve had girls walk right up to me, put their hands on my necklace, and ask “That’s so cool! What is it?” more times than I can remember. It’s an easy way to give girls something to talk about with you, and it works very well.
Women spend hours getting ready, doing their hair, matching their accessories, putting on makeup, and squeezing into the perfect dress, so when a man is very well put together, they’ll notice. Good men’s accessories will set you apart from 99% of men.