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How to Define Masculinity: The 4 Core Spheres of Self

What is masculinity? How do you define it?

When you’re trying to define masculinity you’re bound to encounter a number of problems. Is masculinity physical? Or is it biological? Different cultures define masculinity differently; is there some sort of objective way to define masculinity?

These are all valid questions, and I think that there’s some merit to their respective answers, but in this article, I will attempt to explain masculinity using the “Four Core Spheres of Self,” a term I’ve coined that consists of:

  • Your mind
  • Your body
  • Your emotions
  • Your spirituality

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4 Killer Ways to Invest in Yourself (Without Breaking The Bank!)

“What’s the best investment out there?” asks the young kid with fire in his heart, trying to make it big in the world. Well, there’s a lot of talk about how investing in stocks at a young age is a good thing to do—and it is. But what’s actually more important, is to start investing in yourself from a young age.

Investing in yourself is without a doubt the best investment in existence. It will improve literally every aspect of your life, from your finances, to your sex life, to your happiness, to your body.

We can all start investing in ourselves, today, even if we have very little money. I often see people buying the latest pair of Nikes for $230, but when asked to shell out just $15 for a book that could completely change the way they view things, they say “Nah, man—I can’t afford it.”

Yes, you can afford it—it’s just a matter of spending your money wisely.

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How to Actually be Successful by Eliminating BULLSHIT From Your Life

What people often don’t understand is that success isn’t due to luck. It isn’t due to your connections, it isn’t due to having wealthy parents, and it sure isn’t due to following the well trodden path.

Success is a mindset. Once you learn to adopt a certain mindset, success will come naturally.

I guarantee that if you took Elon Musk, Bill Gates, 50 Cent, or any successful, self-made entrepreneur, and put them into the middle of some poverty-stricken ghetto, within a decade they would be millionaires, if not billionaires again.

Why is this? It’s because they have the “millionaire mindset,” so to speak. They know the principles that lead to success, which I’m going to talk about today.

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10 Creative Ways to Save Money

Generally speaking there are three ways to get rich: to generate new wealth, protect existing wealth, and minimize expenditures.

Generating new wealth comes down to developing assets, such as investing in the stock market, buying a franchise, working a job, or creating a method of passive income.

Protecting existing wealth comes down to setting up safety nets, such as automatic triggers to sell if a stock gets too low, investing in stable stocks such as Coca Cola, or having a stash or physical gold in the case of an economic collapse.

This article will focus on the third method, however. Here are some unconventional ways to save money (aka minimize expenditures):

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Gym Gear: 4 Best Deadlift, Squat, and Bench Straps in 2020

I actually didn’t even use gym gear for a while. Not because I thought it was cheating or anything like that, I mean Olympic power-lifters use it all the time. I guess I just never really thought about it.

But when I recently started using the following gym gear, my max lifts literally went up overnight. My bench went up 10%, my squat went up 15%, and my deadlift went up a whopping 25%.

If you’re a guy who’s trying to get bigger in the gym, or if you’re just trying to get stronger and leaner, I highly urge you to use gym gear for the major compound lifts.

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The Slight Edge: How These 8 Simple Habits Will Transform Your Life

When you look at someone like Elon Musk, Arnold Schwarzenegger, or Bill Gates, it’s easy to be intimated. It’s easy to think that they were just born with some sort of supernatural gift that none of us have.

But the truth is, that every single one of us has just as much potential as they do—we just aren’t taught how to cultivate it. The school system and our parents fail us. They don’t teach us the secrets to success.

The secret to cultivating your dream life, lies within a very simple concept known as the slight edge.

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Why Girls Think You’re Creepy (And How to Not Be Creepy)

What if I told you that creepiness actually has nothing to do with the way that a guy looks? What if I told you that a male model can come off as creepy, too? Would you believe me?

Probably not—most people think that creepiness has to do with the way that you look, but if you actually talk to women about this, you’ll realize that it’s much more of a “vibe,” than it is a look.

Creepiness has everything to do with you being needy. It has nothing to do with the way that you look. Here’s why:

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How to Be More Productive: 4 Ways to 3x Your Productivity

Becoming more productive is actually incredibly simple. You don’t have to increase your brain power or do anything too difficult, you just have to shift the way that you approach tasks and goals.

Unfortunately, however, there’s a ton of bullshit advice out there when it comes to scheduling, and it’s hard to know what works.

Trust me—I’ve tried all of it, and most of it doesn’t work, but there’s a few gems that I’m going to share with you today. If you properly implement this advice into your life, I guarantee that you will be more productive, happier, and have a much more fulfilling life.

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How Enjoying The Journey Will Make You Successful

A lot of guys wonder what the key to success is. Persistence? Hard work? Or maybe being decisive? Well, these things are all great, but there’s one key to success that’s even more fundamental than these.

It’s what will make persistence easy. It’s what will enable the hard work. And without it? You won’t ever be decisive. Despite the incredible impact of this one little key to success, it’s actually very simple. Do you know what it is?

It’s your ability to stay present to the moment, and to focus on the process, not on the results. In other words, it’s learning to enjoy the journey.

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The PUA’s Shit Test Guide: What They Are & How to Pass Them

Anyone who’s been involved in the “PUA community” recently knows about the phenomena of shit tests.

Shit tests are snide little remarks that women throw at you to test you.

Depending on how you react, she’ll either become completely disinterested with you, or she’ll take note and start to view you as an alpha male.

Most guys fail these tests from women miserably—and they have piss poor results with women to show for it.

Once you know how to pass them, however, you’ll notice that your success rate with women will sky rocket.

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