There is an epidemic of overgrown boys in our society; men that are physically mature, but emotionally fragile and weak. Everywhere you look, you see the male gender acting like pathetic little girls.
You see it when a grown man makes pitiful excuses, you see it when a grown man is incredibly out of shape, and you see it when a grown man lets his life fall to shambles. You see it everywhere.
Why? Who knows. It could be that the elites are waging a war against masculinity, it could be our upbringings, and it could be all of the estrogen-mimicking chemicals in our environment. What’s most likely, is that it’s all of these things combined.
Don’t worry, though. Today I’m going to give you a little schooling in how to stop being a bitch, using good, old-fashioned, non-PC language. Let’s get to it.
1. Stop Making Excuses
This is, perhaps, one of the easiest way to tell what a man is worth. Do you think that Alexander the Great made an excuse when he couldn’t figure out how to win a battle? No. He just figured out a way to win the god damn battle.
Do you think that Arnold Schwarzenegger made excuses when he was tired and didn’t feel like going to the gym? No. He got his ass out of bed at 5 in the morning, put on his gym shorts, and went to the gym.
Or maybe you think that King Leonidas made an excuse when Sparta was at risk of being destroyed by the Persians? “Oh, woe is me! There’s too many of them, boo hoo.” FUCK NO, he gathered 300 of his toughest, most honorable men, and they fought to the death to defend their home land.
And you’re complaining because you’re too tired? Are you fucking kidding me? Just two generations ago the men were stuck in muddy trenches, in sub-freezing temperatures, fending for their lives in WWII.
And you think you’ve got it hard? Give me a fucking break, kid. This generation doesn’t know what’s hard; we have everything handed to us, and we wonder why our society is in shambles. If you want to be a man, then stop making excuses.
You want to be a millionaire? Then put in the work required to be one. Learn to create a budget, learn to create a business, and learn how to invest in the stock market. Or maybe you want to get jacked? Well then, stop making excuses, and get your ass to the gym.
Whatever it is that you want, it’s yours for the taking. Life will give you whatever it is that you want…you just have to ask for it by actually trying to get it.
2. Stop Over-Thinking
So many problems could be fixed if men would just learn to stop fretting about stupid bullshit that doesn’t matter. What are some things that you’ve worried about over the past 24 hours, that literally don’t even matter that much?
- “Oh, what does this person think of me?!”
- “Oh, what if THIS happens?”
- “What if I embarrass myself?”
- What if, what if, what if.
Who cares what someone else thinks of you? What matters is what YOU think of you. Stop dwelling in the future and worrying about all of these things that could happen.
When a man becomes stuck in thought, he’s paralyzed by inaction, and we all know that being decisive is one of the most important characteristics of masculinity. If you can’t be decisive as a man, you’re basically a woman in a man’s body.
The next time that you’re encountering a decision, just fucking decide what it is that you need to do. Just fucking decide what you’re going to do, and take massive action to get it done. This is how winning is done, boys—just make the decision to succeed, and do it.
One great way you can cultivate a calm, present state of mind is through meditating. Meditation trains you to get rid of all those nagging, nasty, negative thoughts that sap you of your vital energy and focus. If you’re not meditating, start now.
3. Take a Cold Shower
As I’ve said before, cold showers are a phenomenal way to stop being a bitch. They boost testosterone, enhance alertness, and help you to build the discipline that you need to succeed at life.
I personally take one every single day, and on some days, I take two. Hell, I just took one in between writing #2 and #3 in this article—that’s how much I love them. Whenever I take a cold shower, I always feel invigorated, as if my masculine batteries have been recharged.
Cold showers will help you get over approach anxiety, because they train you to simply act without thinking; they train you to step into the shower, despite your nagging bitchy little mind saying “No! Don’t do it!”
And no, when I say “cold shower,” I don’t mean “somewhat chilly,” shower. I mean turn the knob all the way to the fucking right. Ice-cold, baby; as cold as you can get it to go.
“But Jon, it’s winter time! The water is really cold :(” Perfect, that’s even better. I can always feel the difference between a winter cold shower and a summer cold shower. One makes me moderately uncomfortable, and one makes me hyperventilate and shake around as my body’s bombarded by little icy droplets.
4. Stop Complaining
I swear, out of all the annoying habits in the world, complaining is the one that pisses me off the most. Honestly, what good does it do? What the fuck do you think is going to happen if you keep complaining? Is your Mommy going to come down from the sky and make things better?
Whenever I hear someone complain I literally want to smack them and tell them to shut the fuck up. Complaining is for whiners and cry-babies, and men aren’t either one of those things.
I honestly can’t stand to hear men complain about some of the things they whine about nowadays:
- “I’m tired, wah wah.”
- “I’m afraid of talking to girls, boo hoo.”
- “I don’t have the life I want, can the government help me, please?”
Do you have any fucking idea how hard it was for your ancestors? Just a few hundred years ago your great-great-great-great-grandfather had to run through the woods in freezing temperatures, track down a deer, kill it, and haul it all the way back to his house.
A couple thousand years before that, and the men had to die in battle stabbing each other with swords, clashing shields, and getting limbs torn off. And you’re complaining about how your boss is making you work on Saturday? Are you fucking kidding me?
Instead of complaining, just figure out an action plan to make your situation better. If your car breaks down in the middle of nowhere and it’s starting to get dark, don’t sit around and bitch: “Oh no, it’s getting dark, whatever will I do?” Go figure out a way to repair your car or get help.
If you’re not satisfied with your life, then take action to improve it. One thing that you’ll find with highly successful people (and very attractive women) is that they’re extremely turned off by people who complain.
If you complain around someone who’s a winner they’ll instantly categorize you as a loser, it’s really that simple. Why? Because winners don’t complain, they just make things happen. Only losers complain.
5. Stop Blaming Others
Do you know what type of man blames others for his problems? A man who’s too weak and pathetic to take his life into his own hands. Instead of blaming other people for your own problems, just fix them yourself.
Your boss won’t give you a raise? Okay, then either get one or change jobs. Your girlfriend is being a bitch? Okay, then either have a talk with her or find a girl who treats you better. It’s really not that hard, you just have to stop blaming others for your problems.
When a man blames other people for his own problems, it’s because he has a victim complex. I talk about this in Strategy #6.
When a man has a victim complex, he views himself as this pathetic little baby who’s too weak to change anything for himself. Don’t be like this. You’re not a victim unless you choose to be one. You’re not a bitch unless you choose to be one.
When you blame others for your problems, you immediately take the power to change things out of your own hands. When you blame your boss for not giving you a raise, he becomes the all-powerful controller over whether or not you earn more money.
In reality, you could easily choose to quit your job and go find another one, or better yet, start an online business—but you can only do these things if you stop blaming others for your problems.
Anything that you want in life can be accomplished if you just take accountability. Just fucking decide to make things a certain way, and take action to make them that way. It’s that simple, guys.
In short, don’t be a bitch. Don’t make excuses, don’t blame others for your own inadequacy, and don’t you dare over-think things.
Being a great man isn’t easy. Being a great man requires courage. It requires decisive action, it requires drive, and it requires ambition—all things that many modern men are lacking.
The fastest way to stop being a bitch, and to start being a badass, is to simply implement the advice that I gave you. In fact, why don’t you ask yourself two questions:
- What’s one way that you’ve been acting like a bitch?
- What are you going to do to change it?
If you guys have any questions, comments, or concerns, let me know. And, as always, I’ll see you next time.
I’m female and in my mid to late 20s I realized I have more balls, drive and decisiveness than many men I met/meet. It got to the point I found myself testing men to not waste my time in finding out because men who act like little bitches are annoying and pathetic. It gets under my skin …lol. 🤷🏽♀️
For everyone getting worked up… this is satire bruh XD
This is the most basic bs I’ve read in a while. Come up with new material
LMAO I love it.. My soon to be ex is such a little bitch he smacked his own self and had me put in jail for it.. He lied on the stand with his puppet son and I was charged with the charges he should have got..
Help me be a man and not a little bitch
do it by yourself little bitch
Just quit being a pussy bro just take a shower bro don’t complain at all bro this is more bullshit that was created by women in order for men to bottle up their emotions and spend their effort trying to get pussy this is pathetic If you’re a man you have feelings to just like women it’s how you spend your time and your energy that’s most important fuck this being man enough shit.
Sry bro I can’t hear you over the sound of my Lamborghini
I am the ultimate bitch. It’s in my blood. Might as well call me evil.
This is an article I needed to read. Although I have alot less bitch-type characteristics than i once did. I’ve been working on my attitude, my beliefs, and facing my fears, but I still haven’t crossed over that threshold of complete get shit doneness. Especially when it comes to lifting weights. But I used to be someone who complained and gave up at the first sign of adversity. Now I more readily accept challenges as opportunities to grow. Life is about problems and solving them. Another thing is I’m an ENFP. I’m not sure if you know what that means, but basically I see the world as one big puzzle where everything is connected through lens of my emotions. Alot of guys pretend they do t have emotions. I’m not one of them. The difference is having strong or weak emotions. Faith/fear. Most of my life I listened to fear. I’m no longer doing that. And it’s a pretty new way of thinking for me..a few months into it while I was working two jobs and getting shit done, I broke my damn leg in two places. But instead of letting that defeat me, I’m starting my website to make passive income and of course also help people. For anyone who is working with a self-defeating attitude, you should stop it. There are enough other people and forces trying to defeat you, and nobody is going to do it for you. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. And yeah I talk alot.
Hi Mr. Anthony, I got a little curiosity: Is there a reason why you put Tito Ortiz as the image of this article? If yes, what is it?
Because he’s a tough motherfucker
you could also make the argument that hes a little bitch too though
Just fucking quit your job, and get another one….yeah OK.
Just fucking dump your girl and get another one…..yeah OK.
Just fucking take action and make your world how you want it….yeah fucking OK……..It’s just TOO fucking easy…..
I’m guessing that you’re a naive young guy, who hasn’t actually experienced any of life’s hard knocks.
Life can definitely throw you some hard balls, but the point of the article is to just convey the fact that you can take action if you want.
Stop filing income tax returns, if you really want to stop being a bitch, IRS’ bitch. I stopped over 20 years ago and not word one from It’s Really Slavery. I have over 20 friends that have not filed longer or shorter than I have. Only a couple of them received letters of inquiry but nothing meaningful, all bark, no bite. That’s the truth, so stop trying to convince yourself that they’ll get you. There is no law that requires the average person to file and pay, so why do you?
That’s Bc you’re all poor lol. The irs doesn’t care Bc you and your crack head friends don’t make very much money.
Many scientific studies have proven that complaining acts as a stress relief valve and lessens hypertension, depression, and improves moral. You may not want to agree but the facts are in and common sense would agree as well.
Also, you may have heard “the squeaky wheel gets the grease” and “the aggressor sets the standard” , well feminism didn’t get where it is by holding back those complaints. Preaching the tired old macho anachronism that men should be silent and take it up the ass has gotten men taking it up the ass constantly, you’re only enabling feminazi’s with that lame advice. It’s about time men speak out.
When I use the word complaining, I’m talking about guys who bitch and moan, but don’t actually do anything to change it.
Check out this latest article and attack on a male football player for telling only boys they are strong and can accomplish what they put their mind too. Check out the comment section and how the author of article writes how the player was an accused rapist…..sad where our world is heading when a young man playing football can’t tell young boys to be strong
Excellent Mr. Anthony. Agree there are a lot of overgrown boys today. Others who agree can cite their favorite reasons. But “boys” need know that the real road to manhood is character development. You bring that home with uncommon clarity.
Didn’t you publish a very similar article many months ago?
Don’t think so