When you live without a purpose, you are reactive. Everything you do in life is to avoid pain.
When you live WITH a purpose however, you actively seek out your goals, because they have meaning.
Find your purpose. Cultivate it. Develop it…and don’t ever let it go.
2. Masturbating Constantly
Most men jerk off at least 3-4x a week. In fact, I’d believe that most men probably masturbate once a day.
What they don’t realize is that they’re literally destroying their masculinity.
All of that drive, all of that ambition, and all of that dominant, assertive energy, is literally being wasted away when you’re a chronic masturbator.
Don’t believe me? Try to abstain from porn and masturbation for a week. Just one week. Then see how you feel.
When most guys undergo the “No Fap” journey, they’re astounded that they’ve been living in a haze for their entire lives.
Personally, I’ve been on the “No Fap” bandwagon for over 5 years now. That’s how powerful I believe it is.
I won’t go into the science here, because it doesn’t matter. What matters is that you try it for yourself. See how you feel after just one week of abstinence.
…and yes, you can fuck a girl. They’re different things, and your body KNOWS the difference through pheromones, touch, sight, and smell.
3. Victimizing Yourself
For some reason, it’s extremely popular nowadays to victimize yourself. People line up in droves to argue over who’s the most “oppressed.”
Well I’m going to tell you some cold, hard truth… you’re not oppressed. Nope. There it is, I said it. You’re not fucking oppressed.
You live in an age of abundance. You live in an age where you are literally reading my thoughts, typed onto a digital representation of a piece of paper, from thousands of miles away. So tell me again… how the FUCK are you oppressed?
You want to see oppression? Go to the Middle East where women can’t even drive. Go to North Korea, where failing to properly dust a picture of Kim Jong Un will land not just you, but your children and your GRANDCHILDREN in the work camps, where you’ll probably die.
None of you are oppressed, but those of you who oppress yourselves. In the immortal words of Eleanor Roosevelt: “Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
You are not victimized. Man up, make a plan, and move out.
Most men nowadays are completely indecisive. Do you know what this would’ve gotten you 5,000 or even just 500 years ago? It would’ve gotten you killed.
For years, men were the decision makers of their lives. You didn’t have food? You had to go hunt it. You had to decide where you were going to hunt, when you were going to hunt, what you were going to hunt, and HOW you were going to hunt.
If you didn’t? You would literally die. You would die of starvation.
Now? The only thing you really need to “decide” is which shitty 9-5 job you want to be compliant at.
For me, though? No, no, no… that’s not a life worth living. And if you’re reading this, I’m sure it isn’t for you either.
You hang around losers who lie and steal? Throw them out of your life.
You truly are the product of the five people you hang around the most… so start acting like it.
Masculinity is under attack—and upon investigation, it’s very clear by who. There is a concerted effort to castrate and destroy the men of our society, and it’s up to us to stand against such bullshit propaganda and social engineering.
These are five of the most insidious habits, that if left unchecked, can completely destroy your lives. So please, take heed, and arm yourselves appropriately.
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