When you start sleeping with beautiful women, one thing you’ll learn very quickly is that most men are TERRIBLE in bed.
They either don’t last long enough, don’t know how to make her climax, or don’t have sex with any passion…and that’s assuming that they even have enough game to make her attracted in the first place.
One of the easiest, simplest, and most EFFECTIVE ways to have amazing sex I’ve come across is known as the “DEVI” method, or the “Sex God Method.”
Whether you apply this to your wife of 20 years, your girlfriend of 8 months, or a cute little one night stand you met in Vegas, she’s guaranteed to love it.
“The way of men is will; the way of women is willingness.” -Friedrich Nietzsche
I’ve spoken many times before about developing a masculine purpose. I’ve written articles on how to do it, I’ve mentioned it in my eBooks, and I’ve even coached men who are trying to find a greater sense of purpose.
…and yet, I’ve neglected to write an article on how it relates to women. This is long overdue.
See, the mainstream media teaches us that we should make women our purpose. We should put them on a pedestal, chase them, and do everything we can to please them.
While many men believe that pandering to women will generate attraction, women actually want a man who’s 100% committed to his life’s purpose, and even prioritizes it over HER. Here’s why.
There’s a lot of bullshit out there in the mainstream dating world. “If it’s meant to be, it’ll happen!”
People are raised to believe that their dream spouse will just magically fall into their lap, because life is just some god damn fairy tale, right?
Wrong. If you want to find the perfect girlfriend, and for that matter, the perfect wife, you’re going to have to put in some work…and by some work, I mean a lot of fucking work.
This advice is not mainstream. It is not sugar-coated. It is not meant to soothe you, or to make you feel good. If you cannot handle it, leave.
If you’re ready to take your dating life to the next level, and discover a realistic approach to getting a good girlfriend, however, then read on.
When I first started learning game, I remember how infuriating it was.
I thought I was doing everything correctly! I was following all of the advice that other men gave me, but for some reason, it just didn’t seem to work.
I’m sure you know what I’m talking about. It’s that feeling of hopelessness, where you’re just wondering if you should give up. Is something wrong with you? Maybe, but most likely not.
Most likely, you’re just making one of these five critical errors, any of which will prevent you from getting laid.
I’ve been getting a lot of emails recently from guys trying to learn game. For whatever reason, their dating lives aren’t what they want them to be.
Maybe they don’t have enough women in their life, maybe they don’t have enough high quality women in their life, or maybe they just want a girlfriend.
The one common theme that I keep noticing, however, is that guys don’t really know how or where to start. Do they start with daygame? Night game? Meet girls through their social circle? Where do you start?
Well, I’m going to try my best to answer these questions, in a methodical, actionable, step-by-step plan that you can follow right now.
I got an email from a man a few weeks ago, asking me why women cheat—and it’s hard to blame him for asking this question.
It seems that everywhere we look, people are getting divorced left and right. Unfortunately, due to changes in our civilization and its culture over the past few generations, cheating has become incredibly common.
Some girls cheat on their boyfriends. Some girls cheat on their husbands. Some even cheat when their man is overseas—why is this, though? Is it because of our lack of morals as a civilization?
Or maybe the institution of “no fault divorce,” has made the playing field skewed in the advantage of women?
Well, in this article I’m going to break down some of the reasons why women cheat…and more importantly, what you can do about it.
When the average person learns that I teach men how to approach and seduce women, they almost always look at me in a judgmental way.
“This guy teaches other men how to seduce women? That’s so manipulative!” or “So he’s a professional pick up artist? What a pervert!” Thoughts like these are very common to the average woman who discovers my blog.
And what’s even worse, is that thoughts like these are very common to the average MAN, as well. I can’t tell you how many white knights I’ve met out on the dance floor that try to shame me for being a normal guy who just wants some pussy.
In this post I will explain why most people stuck in group think view learning game as “shallow,” “manipulative,” or “perverted,” and why learning game is actually one of the best things you can do for self-development.
I recall walking around Washington, D.C. one afternoon, telling myself that I was going to do some day game.
“Alright, this is it Jon—no more fucking around. It’s time to learn game.” I got out of my car and trotted over to the nearest park where they were putting on some sort of music festival.
There was literally thousands of people all over the place, but I just walked around for an hour like a dummy. I could not work up the nerve to approach a girl. “That girl, there!” I’d tell myself. Then, as usual, I’d bitch out at the last minute. “FUCK!” Sound familiar?
Even after running to a nearby liquor store and pounding down some vodka, I STILL couldn’t work up the nerve to approach. “What gives?” I thought.
Getting over approach anxiety was one of the hardest things that I ever did…but paradoxically, it was also one of the easiest. Here’s why.
I talk a lot about being decisive and assertive on my blog, and how these characteristics are good when it comes to attracting women.
Women want a man who’s confident, and isn’t afraid to escalate things sexually; they want a man who’s decisive, and who takes action. They want a man who takes the lead.
But, as with most things in game, there’s a lot of nuance involved—for example, when I’m going up to a woman in a club and approaching her, yes I am extremely decisive and assertive.
Yes, I grab her by the hand, spin her around, and sometimes go in for an instant kiss, BUT all the while, I’m scanning her body language to see if I’m making her feel uncomfortable or awkward.
Would you rather have a one night stand with Megan Fox, or be her best friend?
Most guys, upon being asked this question, would respond with the following: “Jon, are you JOKING? Of course I’d rather fuck her!”
Most guys would KILL to have a one night stand with Megan Fox; they get friend-zoned enough, why would they ever want to be her best friend?
This may be a complete reality-shifting mind-fuck for most guys out there, but what if I told you that it’s infinitely better to be Megan Fox’s best friend, than to have a one night stand with her?